I thought men were hard to reach, always concerned about how they felt about me. The worst part is that I could never let a man come and speak to me. I realized that the things in my life were not what I wanted them to be. I was tired, frustrated, safe, and unhappy. What I wanted to be was for a man to have me. I needed the perfect man in my life to give me passion and care. I decided to act and make significant changes in my life. I went out and looked for ways to make it happen.